Don’t Be a Vibe Destoryer

My suspicion is that this character comes up in various circles. This is the person who comes to things and brings everyone down, whether it’s by not participating, and or taking others away from the enjoyment of the get together, or complains about their energy and their time all. the. time.

Obviously, everyone has off days, but don’t let it be part of your expressed personality and attitude. On those off days, take some time for yourself, or some time with a trusted friend or family member. Obviously everyone goes through hard times and I am in no way suggesting you should just plow through them, but find an appropriate time and mentor or friend to work through those moments with.

Don’t be the one to throw off everyone’s mood or actions. If you need a moment or need help from a friend, don’t passive aggressively take them away from the group by your actions, know how your actions come across to others and be considerate.

Lastly let others bring up your mood, positive (literal) energy can be just as contagious. Let others bring your vibe up. Contribute to the group and you’ll find that not only you’re better off in the moment, everyone else is as well.